Monday, April 24, 2017

Birthday Celebration

The last two years for my birthday I made it a point to go somewhere I'd never been before. This year it was kind of hard to do that. First, it was because I had a lot to do on my actual birthday. Second, my birthday snuck up on me. I'm one of those people who will annoy you and tell you my birthday is a month away. I think I was so focused on spring weather this year that my birthday felt so far away. Either winter lasted way too long or I am just old and forgetful. Both are quite possible.
I had just a small get together this year. I told everyone not to get me anything because I don't need anything, and after living here for two years and understanding that the Russian salary is nothing (like I make less than $400 a month), I really didn't want people spending money on me. Against my wishes, I was given gifts. According to Russian tradition, if someone invites a group of people out for the celebration they are responsible for paying for everyone's food and drinks. Apparently I forgot about this because I just looked back at this post and saw that I had written about this very thing. I bought tea for everyone but not the food. I felt really guilty when Anton brought it up later, and I still feel guilty now because of the fact that everyone got me a gift. I'll file this under "Awkward Cultural Differences."
All-in-all it was a great birthday. I'm looking forward to many more! :)

Friday, April 21, 2017

April 13, 2017

If you read this post from last week then you know that I celebrated my 28th birthday. Can you believe I graduated from high school and started college 10 years ago? Anyways, it was a pretty simple day. I didn't get any sleep the night before because I was mulling over my decision for next year. I said it wasn't an easy decision, and it really wasn't.

I had an individual lesson and then a work meeting. I walked in late to the work meeting and my director and everyone started singing "Happy Birthday," and they presented me with chocolates and a rose with an abnormally long stem. I hate having attention drawn on me in that way but I was grateful for everyone who celebrated with me. After our meeting I sat in the office in the office and talked with one of my colleagues for a while. Around 5 I met A and we went to one of our most frequented cafes for dinner.
After dinner we picked up a cake. I took a picture of A holding all my gifts and cake, but in reality I carried all my stuff back to my house. :) I had an interview that night, which I should have cancelled since I had accepted another job beforehand but decided to keep it because I'm the world's worst interviewee so I figured the extra practice couldn't hurt. Then A and I had some cake with tea to finish the night.
Thank you to all who wished me a happy birthday!

Monday, April 17, 2017

Where Will I Be Next Year?

My blog is about to get a lot less exciting.

I'm moving back to the United States.

It is with a heavy heart that I write this post. I accepted a job in a school district outside of Cleveland. I love Russia. I met amazing people, and I had many great experiences. I knew I would not stay in Russia forever but part of me hoped I would.

A few months back I had an interview with Innopolis. I got the job, but I was waiting for my paperwork to go through migration. It took a long time. I kept thinking, "What if the FSB doesn't like something I wrote on my blog, and, now, they aren't allowing me to stay?" My paranoia led me to e-mail one of my teacher friends to ask if she knew of any ESL positions. Within a short period of time I was applying to two different positions in the Cleveland area.

I found out  my paperwork had gone through Russian migration, but I was still waiting on their offer. Again, it took a long time. I had already interviewed with the two districts in Ohio. The first was telling me they wanted to hire me, but they couldn't formally give me an offer yet. The second said I should wait for a second interview.

So, here I was last week Skyping with one district who didn't want me to go to the other Ohio school district and waiting on my offer from Innopolis. Finally, the Innopolis offer arrived. It was much better than I expected. I liked the woman who was hiring and I liked the university. I decided I was probably going to go with Innopolis, but I would just wait until I got the official offer from Ohio. But I had to sign a three-year contract with Innopolis? Was I ready to establish my life in Ohio and give up my dream job in the USA?

Wednesday night, the eve of my 28th birthday, I Skyped with the Ohio district one last time. They gave me their official offer. It, too, was better than I expected. They gave me the night to think about it. I was a wreck.

I decided I would chose the school in Ohio.

The decision was not easy. I literally did not know where I would be right up until Thursday when I sent my acceptance e-mail to my future employer. I got less than 3 hours of sleep that night and woke up anxious the next morning.

Long term, though, the job in the USA is where I need to be, and it's the career I always wanted. Having the financial burden of student loans also played a major part in the decision.

I'll definitely return to Russia. This job will provide me the financial stability I need to continue traveling. I already have plans to visit Spain again during my winter break.

So what now? I plan on returning back to Ohio at the end of June where I will get readjusted to American culture and meet with friends and family I haven't seen in two years. I accepted a job as the ESL teacher in a school district which means I have about a month until I have to start working.

In the mean time, I have so much I still want to see and do in Russia, so May will give me more time to do that. I will miss Russia, but I do not regret my decision. This will be my love ballad to you, Russia.

Thursday, April 13, 2017

Twenty-Eight

Today is my 28th birthday. I'm 28, and I still get carded for alcohol (even in Russia where the drinking age is 18). I'm 28 which means I never set foot in the USA during my 27th year. I'm 28 and still have never been married, but, honestly, I'm okay with that. I'm 28 and officially older than both my parents were when they got married and had me, which is depressing because I still don't feel like I'm ready to be an adult. I'm 28, and I have more gray hair than any 28 year old should. I'm 28, and I've already had the opportunity to travel to nine countries and live in abroad for two years. I'm 28, and I still have a lot to do to complete this list. I'm 28, and I still imagine I'll marry Leonardo DiCaprio just like my 8 year old self. Some things never change.

So, here's to the past 28 years and all the people I met and the friends I made and to the next 28 years. I can't wait to see where life takes me!

Monday, April 10, 2017

Manezhnaya Square

Manezhnaya pl., Moskva, Russia
I prided myself on not getting sick this entire winter. Then, I jinxed it. I got sick this past week. I'm not really sure what caused it. At first I thought it was bronchitis. Then I thought it was the flu. Every day I woke up with some different symptom, but I never had a fever. A few days I had body aches, but I was never sick enough to be confined to my bed. Thank goodness. I did take it easy this weekend because it's my birthday week, and I don't want to be sick for my birthday! :)

Since I didn't do much it meant I didn't have anything to blog about today. So, here are pictures from our trip to Moscow this past August. Besides the Metro I think Manezhnaya Square is one of my favorite places in Moscow. I'd like it better, though, if there weren't so many tourists and people around. Can you believe I've been to Moscow twice and I still haven't been inside the Kremlin. I'm thinking about visiting Moscow again in June, so I'll make sure I spend time there!
Have you been to Moscow? What's your favorite place?
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